Tell Me About: Mindset

Being in the wrong mindset can ruin a carefully planned scene, and it is as important, for the Dom, as the sub to be in the right frame of mind.  If either one of us isn’t feeling it then the chances are it either won’t work out, or it will take a lot of effort Read More …

Tell Me About: Fantasies

When we entered into a D/s relationship, MrH and I talked about our fantasies and it opened up a whole world of sexual play that had been previously unexplored.   In our early years I purchased a number of traditional dress up items.  A French Maids outfit and a PVC dress were worn with stockings to Read More …

Tell me your plan

It has been very difficult this week.  I am horny.  I have been for a few days.  Weeks.  Last weekend MrH had me suck his cock, (I so need a different way to describe that) and then he fucked me.  I did not orgasm.  He tried to touch my pussy but I pulled away partly Read More …

What’s next?

So, S2 is moved in with S1, and now MrH and I are alone. Time to reorganize We have a week off work and we will be slowly sorting through the things left behind, packing what needs to be saved and disposing of the rest. If we get chance we will probably put a coat Read More …

What was that?

We stayed at a hotel on Tuesday night, which I may have mentioned in my earlier posts, so we could go to the munch without having to drive home afterwards, and because it was MrH birthday on the Wednesday.. Hotel fuckery As a rule that means we get to have some seriously uninhibited play because Read More …

Can’t quite put my finger on it…..

But I don’t feel right.  I usually feel calm and content. But instead I feel sad, disconnected, distant.  Although S1 headed off to London and we “in theory” had our old routines back things just don’t feel right. That’s not to say MrH and I haven’t played because we have. We have tested the replacement wand. Read More …