Recognition, validation and Giving Thanks

Part of being human is the need to feel like you are part of a community, to belong if you like, and to feel valued within that sphere. This year I have been fortunate enough to be included in two different Top 100 Sex Blog lists and for that I am so very grateful, truly, Read More …

Christmas Day 2018

I’m still suffering from the tramadol withdrawal. Which sucks. MrH is looking after me, as is our youngest B. Our eldest S didn’t come home, he went to stay with friends. We don’t really make a huge fuss at Christmas we never have. I’m not a fan of commercialisation and the oneupmanship that occurs this Read More …

Life’s victories

Some of you will know (depending on how many of my posts you have read) that a few years ago I successfully lost 5 Stone, following the slimming world plan. And for the most part when I look at myself I’m proud of where I have got to and happy with how I look. I Read More …

Foot works

Today MrH said it would be a rest day. “We have no deadlines,” he said, “so rest. I have things to do and you can rest.” I know I looked a bit crestfallen and he added, “I protect you- even from yourself.” He’s not wrong of course. I am my own worst enemy at times. Read More …

Forced Orgasm Heaven

This morning our youngest went to help out my mum and we were given a couple of hours alone. Normally I would be winking and nudging MrH all morning about this “alone time” and what we might do in it, but today, for some strange reason I didn’t. I say strange because the child had Read More …

Control

One of my followers just asked me a simple question… “if the tables were turned what would you want to do to him” …. My answer is a simple one. I can’t imagine it.  I just can’t. I’m completely submissive to him.  I need him to be in charge.  I need him to control me. I need him to Read More …

Our holiday- continued.

The story so far….  (see part one) Having been stripped naked, MrH ordered me to suck his cock maintaining eye contact (a new challenge) before sending me to the bedroom and telling me to spread my ass cheeks.  And now the conclusion…  MrH had decided on some anal play, and he applied lots of lube and inserted Read More …

One year …..

One year ago today I asked MrH to consider adding elements of BDSM to our relationship; primarily D/s. One year ago today MrH turned off the lights, spread my arms and legs and said, “don’t move“. One year ago today I had the most amazing sexual experience that I could remember to that point. (It Read More …

What a wonderful night…

I could write in detail about our most recent hotel stay. I could tell you about the delicious food, the lovely rooms and the delightful view from the balcony. I could tell you how I was bound and pleasured. I could tell you about the seemly endless minutes of forced orgasms where time stopped and Read More …

Bank Holiday Monday Shorts..

No literally, shorts! I can count on one hand the number of times my legs have been bared in the last 20 years… Its 7am and so warm that both MrH and I are in shorts. Yesterday we continued cleaning our motorbikes, adjusting the chain and setting up the radios. We had planned to go Read More …

Reflecting….

MrH has been my Dominant for 9 months now and over the last few days I have been prompted to reflect on our journey by a few other blog posts. In short it’s been wonderful. Every area of our relationship has been touched by the D/s dynamic and made stronger, more passionate, more intimate and Read More …