Do you like what you see?

A while ago, I did a strip tease for Mr H.  I practiced for a week and I really enjoyed doing it.  He grinned and got an erection, the perfect appreciation.  When I am feeling a little flirty and playful I will sometimes ask Mr H, “do you like what you see?” “Oh yes!” Is Read More …

You won’t break me

I am precious, cherished, loved.  Mr H controls his strength and holds back afraid to break me, most of the time.  Last year we experimented with him spanking me as hard as he could and he left gorgeous hand prints on my bottom, one side also had a welt for a few days.  And, he Read More …

Prioritising Intimacy

Yesterday’s post Hairy Pussy resulted in a long discussion between Mr H and myself.  Probably one that was very overdue, well there is no probably about it really.  I have written about how we have not made the effort we should, and again and again said we would, but we haven’t.  We have not focused Read More …

I want you to fuck my ass

“I want you to fuck my ass,” was one of the first dirty things I asked Mr H for, if you don’t count spanking or asking him to be my Dominant.  It was also one of the hardest things I have asked for.  In fact asking him to do things to me is something I find Read More …

Glass Dildo and Latex Gloves

While S2 was at work on Boxing Day, we took the opportunity to play.  I thought we would not be playing until the evening when S2 went out with friends and so mentally I was prepared for that.  When MrH put got two glass dildos* out and the doxy I wasn’t prepared.  In fact I Read More …

Tell Me About: Mindset

Being in the wrong mindset can ruin a carefully planned scene, and it is as important, for the Dom, as the sub to be in the right frame of mind.  If either one of us isn’t feeling it then the chances are it either won’t work out, or it will take a lot of effort Read More …

Friday Night Fun

It’s Friday Night and S2 has gone to work, MrH dropped him off and we are alone until 10pm.  MrH plans to play, if the kiss he gave me earlier is anything to go by.  My body had responded to that kiss like a horny wanton slut. Tea was cooked and eaten when MrH came Read More …

Punishment and Rewards

Punishment or Discipline In the world of BDSM, the ‘D’ can mean Discipline or Dominance.  We don’t really explore the full scope of BDSM, because I am not a huge fan of pain.  I do not want bruises or to bleed as some people who are masochistic do; and I don’t believe that MrH would Read More …

Tell Me About: Control

Control is an Illusion Especially within a D/s relationship with a power exchange like ours, control is just an illusion.  We have agreed rules and boundaries; MrH works within those boundaries.  To the outside world, it looks like MrH has all the power because he makes the decisions.  And, that is where the illusion lies, Read More …

50 Things You Didn’t Know About Me

I recently read a post by HisLordship that had been inspired by another Blogger Tall, Dark and Dominant, both posts contained 50 things the world probably didn’t know about them.  Similarly inspired by these gents I have compiled my own list.  So here they are 50 things you probably didn’t know about me. I like dogs more Read More …

Come for me

Over the last few years I have found I do not get the same satisfaction from masturbating that I once did.  I can still orgasm but it isn’t the type of orgasm that leaves me feeling satisfied, but feels unfinished. I have talked about orgasms before and the different types I experience. There are exceptions, Read More …

Tell Me About: Fantasies

When we entered into a D/s relationship, MrH and I talked about our fantasies and it opened up a whole world of sexual play that had been previously unexplored.   In our early years I purchased a number of traditional dress up items.  A French Maids outfit and a PVC dress were worn with stockings to Read More …