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Tell Me About: Mindset

Being in the wrong mindset can ruin a carefully planned scene, and it is as important, for the Dom, as the sub to be in the right frame of mind.  If either one of us isn’t feeling it then the chances are it either won’t work out, or it will take a lot of effort to make it work.  So, I guess the important questions is: Mindset, what makes it, what breaks it? There are a lot of ways that my state of mind can affect play; more to the point, ruin play.  If I am distracted by sounds like

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Might not will

There is a difference between the words ‘might’ and ‘will’ but my brain has trouble with this.  No, I’m serious and I bet I am not the only one… Let me give you an example.  On Thursday night MrH said his tummy hurt and I asked if he wanted something to ease it.  He said he did not and I responded with “OK” and dropped it.  Normally I would have followed up with an “are you sure?” but I did not.  As a result he said, “you might get a treat for that tomorrow night.” That’s what he said; but

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A Blow Job

A blow job.

It isn’t often Mr H tells me to give him a blow job but it is something I find highly enjoyable. I think my favourite way is when he kneels me in front of him and as well as allowing me to pleasure him, he can also take charge and use my mouth to fuck me. There’s something, don’t ask me what, that really turns me on, when I kneel in front of him. Having his cock my my mouth too is awesome, ticks another box. Having him old my head and pump his cock in and out of my

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Journal Entry: Wednesday Night Chat 14th August 2018

We sometimes struggle to find topics to talk about, and rather than cancel I found an online kink questionnaire and we decided to go through it and see how our answers differed and what we shared an interest in. It isn’t the first time we have done these, in fact I think we have now done three or four of them.  Usually I answer them and Mr H reads them, nodding or shaking his head. This time I sent him the link and we read them together both giving our answers.  I wanted to know where his interests lay without

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I want it that way

The prompt for the 28th Erotic Journal Challenge is about sexual positions, what’s your most and least favourite? There have already been a few posts about this and there seems to be similarities in the favourite positions so far. . And I have to agree, Missionary, Doggy and girl on top are among my favourites too. So if you follow the meme I apologise in advance if you think have I read this already? I was searching for some images to use and found this delightful blog. They gave me permission to use their images and for more info on

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Can I have a treat?

I have mentioned before how I have a mental block when it comes to asking Mr H questions regarding sex, whether it is something I would like to do, or asking Mr H to change what he is doing. I still fear that rejection and ultimately don’t feel my needs and wants are important enough. Yesterday’s play had felt particularly nice, and so I wanted to know if Mr H had done something differently. But, today I asked a question. It took me the best part of an hour to actually ask it, but I did. Did you do anything different

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Do I deserve a treat?

I lost 2.5lbs this week, and I’ve followed the rules, so this afternoon I asked if Sir thought I deserved a treat. I figured, it can’t hurt to ask right?? And I’m feeling horny… I mean like I want an orgasm and Sirs cock inside me really bad! This weeks been hectic and we didn’t do the midweek cane session. We did talk, but MrH didn’t feel like doing the cane work, so we didn’t. I know that when we don’t do these things it affects my mental state. I begin to feel distant or down, but this week it

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300. All about the Cock

Oh my ….. 300 posts!!!! I’ve been working on this post for a while now, and decided to post it as my 300th blog post….. What do I mean by All about the cock? Well I don’t mean I get fucked every day, or that I get to give MrH a blow job every day. I mean I wish I did – I would spend most of my time being fucked by, fucking or sucking on Sirs cock until he came, but that’s hardly realistic. Desirable. But not practical. Nor do I mean to imply that you or anyone else

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Let the games begin

I was instructed to dress in specific clothes and be stood in inspection facing away from the door….. Mr H opened the bedroom door, smiled and said, “let the games begin.” MrH had fun taking pictures….. and a few wardrobe changes were required. Games Begin. After MrH had taken some action shots too we moved to the bedroom for the show (which you all know I’ve been very nervous about!) and I was allowed to use our favourite vibe ‘promises’ MrH says I did very well and I was rewarded with more orgasms as MrH used his mouth and tongue

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