The kinky side of life.


New Vision, New Look.

Welcome to the new website, A Submissive Wife. Until a few days ago I could be found at sweetgirls journal but, following a critical database error and the discovery that the site had not been backing up since 7th Feb I decided it was time to roll my sleeves up

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Girdle Tie

Girdle Tie

Tie me Up Tuesday is a great project and I am trying to join in as much as possible, but that isn’t always easy with my situation.  If I don’t think we can do the tie (for logistical reasons – see here) I am planning to use a photo of

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Hope is a waste of time.

“You only have one chance to make a good impression,” is something that my parents drummed into me my whole childhood, and they were damn good at putting on a show that meant people never saw the real home I lived in.  I knew from an early age that nothing

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barrel curls

Barrel Curls for Pin Up

A while ago Mr H and I went out for a meal and I had my hair done for the occasion.  I adore the 50’s style, the clothes were feminine and suit my body shape, but I can’t style my hair well so when it looks awesome, I have to

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Seven Days in April – Day Five

I have spoken a few times about how I have a tendency to overthink things and how this affects my mental health.  The lockdown has I think, had a bad effect on many people judging from some of the comments on twitter and facebook from people who are struggling with

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I love being a girl.

I love being a girl, I’ve never wanted to be anything else and I know that makes me lucky.  I have never known the emotional struggle of not feeling comfortable in my own body, of having to make others understand that my gender identity is not the one I was

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Tie Me Up Tuesday – Chest Harness Tie.

I love being tied, and the new meme ‘Tie Me Up Tuesday’ is so much fun!  Giving us an excuse to get the rope out more frequently.  This week the tie prompt is ‘chest harness’ and unfortunately I can’t sit or stand at the moment for Mr H to do

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Tell Me About: Wax Play

A few years ago we had a house fire and candles were banned, but when we began our D/s journey, and I heard about wax play, my curiosity was piqued.  For a short time caution outweighed my interest but eventually, as often happens, my curiosity won and a small set

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Tie Me Up Tuesday – Leg Tie.

The new Meme by @mlslave is aimed at riggers and rope bunnies, and of course having fun with rope! As we don’t get much opportunity to play with rope (and I love it) I showed it to Mr H and asked him if he would do this during our Sunday

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Hot Octopus Amo Review.

Hot Octopus sent me their ‘Amo’ to review and I was very excited.  I don’t normally like bullet vibrators, they don’t have a large enough surface area but the unusual shape of the ‘Amo’ had me intrigued.  At £49.00 + shipping I was expecting big things. Hot Octopus Amo –

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