What’s so great about the Satisfyer Double Joy?
I can’t remember exactly when Satisfyer sent me this toy to review, it must be…
Why we are happy being monogamous
There are many articles out there that argue monogamy is an unnatural state, and that…
What is so special about Autumn?
Autumn, that wonderful time of year when the leaves turn golden brown and russet red….
Why it’s important to have safewords
Safewords. You hear a lot about them when you first start out in BDSM and…
How to be at peace; finding your spirit animal
Many moons ago Mr. H and I visited the Lake District, we were on our…
What’s the best way to manage change?
There have been a lot of changes in our relationship over the last 2 years,…
How to carry on when you’re not feeling it
Well hello – been a while hasn’t it? I’m like the crap friend who doesn’t…
Is the lockdown really coming to an end?
The lockdown in England is about to move into the next stage of the “roadmap…
Why make changes to the site?
You may have noticed a few changes to the site appearance over the last few…
Lost passion; when one partner becomes disabled
If you are a follower of this blog, I want to thank you for sticking…
How to keep your mind from going mad
In this new lockdown, as with others, one of the things I see most on…
Real love, lockdown and being cared for.
Well hello 2021. Mr. H and I saw in the new year the way we…
Random Posts
Rope and A flogging
Last night we had a rare few hours with the boys out of the house….
Father Figures
When I was 5 my parents divorced. My mum went to live with another man…
Paloqueth Clit Sucker – Review
When the lovely Maria from Paloqueth contacted me to ask if I could review the…
Bucket List or Wish List
I don’t really have lists of what I want to do, I gave up on…
Fiction Relay Part 3 – Detective Walker.
The story so far. Susie was murdered back in the summer of 1995.Eleven years pass…
I don’t want to be disabled
I have written before about how I struggle when Mr H has to work on…