Blogging from A2Z 2019: Bondage

I think Bondage will be a popular pick for the letter B, I mean if you’re a sex blogger or kinkster… like me. Bondage is the first word from the term BDSM and later in this challenge I’ll discuss the other 3.

I love being tied up. MrH likes to tie me up. Works well don’t you think? Well I do.

As daft as it sounds I find a freedom in being restrained. The idea that I am unable to resist MrH, that I am at his mercy turns me on. That no matter how depraved or dirty his demands on my body I am helpless (an illusion of course as I can stop play with a single word) and again that turns me on.

While I love being verbally placed in bondage, told I must not move, I wonder if this places additional strain on my body. The physical effort of holding the body still, the tension that runs throughout my body in an effort to remain still.. yes, this might require more thought and discussion with MrH….. when bound by rope I can relax, my body is secure and unable to move without effort from me.

There’s many forms Bondage can take, and I’ve written more about it in my post Tell Me About: Bondage. There are things we haven’t explored – yet – and things we are looking forward to doing more of.

8 Replies to “Blogging from A2Z 2019: Bondage”

  1. Bondage is a thing I love too – I feel like I am being put into my place – i nearly chose that as my B in the challenge but went for breasts instead ๐Ÿ˜‰

  2. Another lover of bondage over here!

    An aside that I find interesting is how much I hate being restrained outside of kinky play. If my OH pins me, say during a fun fight or whatever, I immediately panic and end up sobbing. It baffles him how extreme my reaction is, given that I’ve let him near enough mummify me with bondage tape more than once. The mind is a weird thing init.x

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