Not long into our journey we met a male submissive called Furcissy on the Safewords Club, who asked me what kept me in my submissive head space. I said I didn’t know, so he encouraged me to write a none sexual story that fed my submissive desires. What I came up with (The Greeting ) was quite interesting. Apparently I liked the idea of MrH making/expecting me to serve him. This surprised me because I hated picking up after MrH. I mean really hated. I would stomp and sulk when dirty clothes were not put in the basket.
Well after a little while MrH incorporated some of this into our dynamic.
Everyday I prepare his bath.
Everyday he will tell me to get our supper and bring it upstairs.
Sometimes he will have me undress him after work, and dress him in his comfortable clothing.
These little things helped to make me feel useful and help me feel submissive.
I no longer see tidying up as a frustrating chore, it’s simply something I do. I feel very disappointed when for one reason or another I am unable to get supper or prepare his bath.
If you have never encountered Furcissy’s blog, I really do recommend it. He is a veritable fountain of knowledge, his posts are insightful, interesting and often thought provoking.
I have learned lots from him and he isn’t afraid to challenge your point of view which is great! He also writes erotic fiction based on the F/m dynamic.