There’s a song by Faith Hill that I absolutely adore called ‘The Way You Love Me’. These are the lyrics:
If I could grant you one wish, I'd wish you could see the way you kiss Ooh, I love watching you baby When you're driving me crazy Ooh, I love the way you Love the way you love me There's nowhere else I'd rather be Ooo, to feel the way I feel with your arms around me I only wish that you could see the way you love me
I think the reason I love this song so much is that I wish so much that MrH could feel the way he makes me feel. And I think that many of us would wish the same thing. To have the ability to truly know how our partners feel, and for them to feel as you do. I mean I know that he can ‘see’ the affect he has on me. He can ‘see’ my response to his touch but he can’t ‘feel’ it.
He can’t feel the tingles that flow over my skin in the wake of his hand, or the warmth that floods through my body after his hand strikes the sweet spot on my bottom. He doesn’t know how the orgasms that last, and last, and last feel. He doesn’t know how I feel when my whole body has floated away from the world, when my brain is mush and I can’t hold a coherent thought, or speak. And after, when I feel so relaxed, when my limbs are heavy and I just want to lie in his arms, safe, warm and loved.
I will never be able to explain it properly, and even with the best words and the best imagination, it isn’t the same as actually ‘feeling’ it first hand. And, no matter how I try, I will never know how he feels. This isn’t just a BDSM thing either; its not about the D/s feelings and how a ‘D’ feels compared to a ‘s’, even a switch can’t feel the physical feelings of their partner. It’s more basic than that. Its about that individuality that defines each of us.
As for MrH, I really do wish he could truly know how he makes me feel, when he touches me, when he kisses me, when he breathes on my body, when he’s near me, because to me it’s the best feeling in the world.