MrH and I spent quite some time talking collars. He wanted something that I could wear at any time and only he and I would know it’s significance. He started searching for something that would work. Time and time again he came back to the idea of a long silver chain with a ring at one end. This is worn by threading one end through the ring.
I loved it but it wasn’t something I could wear all the time. The free end was long and would easily break if I wore it to bed – and I liked the idea of having a night collar that would perhaps be more suitable and indicative of play.
Getting creative – making collars
So MrH started looking for something and in the end he made this for me to wear at bed time.
Initially we had thought that there was not necessarily a needed to have collars, after all we’re married, I have a wedding ring. What I have found though is that it really does help me get into the sub head space when my night collar goes on. The day chain enables me to feel close to Sir while I am at work; reminds me that I am his.