A Submissive Wife's Blog.

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A Submissive Wife's Blog

Welcome.  Perhaps you are here because you are interested in some form of BDSM, maybe it was an accident. Either way- I’m glad you’re here.  I am a normal person, honest!  In 2017 I had conversation with my husband of 18 years, that led to our present relationship style.  I am a submissive wife and, I LOVE it!

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What do you write about?

I write about being a submissive wife, the power exchange involved, and about sex of course!  We enjoy anal sex and I love giving Mr H a blow job, sometimes he even treats me to a face fuck.  We have under bed restraints and rope for the bondage we engage in and the impact play we enjoy. And, yes I mean spanking too!

What is BDSM?

BDSM stands for a combination of things, and people who practice will have specific areas of interest.

Most people think of latex and whips when they talk about BDSM, of extreme pain being inflicted on someone but that is more the Sadism and Masochism side.  Our interest lies within Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, and Submission.

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How can you be a Submissive Wife in this day and age?

I know some people shudder at the idea of a woman handing control to a man. but there are many submissive husbands out there too.  Being submissive in no way makes me less important; in fact changing our dynamic has made me feel more cherished and more beloved than ever.  I have as much power as I ever did and I can withdraw my consent to the power exchange at any time.  Given the amazing benefits I have gleaned from it however, I think it highly unlikely that I would do so.

This blog is my online Journal, and the thoughts expressed are my own.  I started this blog in 2017 after I found a blog by Submissy another monogamous submissive wife.  If you haven’t already found her blog, I recommend it, she has some fabulous posts and a wealth of experience.

Follow and Respect Me

There are a few ways you can follow my blog, you can subscribe by email or follow my blog on your reader app (such as wordpress reader). There are links on the side menu.  I welcome feedback and so please do comment on the posts.  If you have questions you can email me via the contact page.  I just ask that you respect our (mine and MrH’s) wishes and follow the guidelines below when commenting or contacting me, please. 😊

  • Be respectful.
  • Be polite.
  • Remember I am monogamous and married to MrH.  I am not interested in anyone else.

I hope that now you are here you will have a good look around, read a few posts and that you decide to stick around.

Sweetgirl x

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I am a member of The SafeworD/s Club and if you are looking for, an online community created for D/s couples you will not find a better one! We have two chats a week on Tuesdays and Sundays at 8pm GMT, why not come along and join in the fun. 


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